Category: Rants 2018 The problem with the Guru Mystique Nov 07 2018 A good Dom Aug 30 2018 Consent is always consent, and violence is always violence Aug 30 2018 Bullying Aug 26 2018 Cock isn't in short supply (and neither are riggers) Aug 21 2018 Surviving your first play party Jul 10 2018 Your excuse about cheating is invalid Jun 07 2018 How we got here: Power and sex Jan 30 2018 I'm so sick of "drama free" Jan 17 2018 Are we ready to embrace people who've done bad things? Jan 10 2018 Consent is Only Part of the Equation Jan 09 2018 Tired of Ghosting? What about Blinky? Jan 05 2018 2017 Asserting Neurodiversity in the BDSM Community Oct 30 2017 Woke Culture Jamming Oct 02 2017 Events Are A Good Thing (or: Kink isn't territorial) Sep 21 2017 The secret is out, longed haired women who sleep with men Sep 17 2017 Fight Injustice Everywhere Sep 14 2017 Antisemitism and the Scene Aug 18 2017 Interest Does Not Make Right Aug 15 2017 What Your Collar Means To Me Jul 13 2017 This pie is too small to cut up Jun 22 2017 Safe spaces are about excluding (you) and that's okay Jun 17 2017 All these white people telling me what to do May 28 2017 The Unwanted Threesome May 10 2017 Breakups in Poly Suck May 06 2017 Kink is Therapeutic, Not Therapy May 06 2017 The Lack of BDSM Porn May 04 2017 A Guide to Online Pickup Play (Dominant Edition) Mar 28 2017 A Guide to Online Pickup Play (Submissive Edition) Mar 28 2017 Not Muggles Mar 16 2017 Dominance and Superiority Mar 13 2017 Bravery in the face of rejection Mar 02 2017 There's my ex-wife's ass, or "The Tiny World of the Scene" Mar 01 2017 Drop your top a note Feb 23 2017 Why I use simple safewords Feb 14 2017 I want to tie you, not spank you... (intimacy in the scene pt 2) Jan 07 2017 2016 Surviving Fetlife Groups Dec 24 2016 Borderline and Co-Dependency in the Scene: Part 4 - Stages of a BPD/Codepdendent Relationship Nov 26 2016 Entitelement isn't just for cis male doms Nov 22 2016 Musician For One Nov 22 2016 Twue Subs Nov 22 2016 Borderline and Co-Dependency in the Scene: Part 3 - Warning Signs in Your Partner Nov 08 2016 Borderline and Co-Dependency in the Scene: Part 2 - Warning Signs in Yourself Nov 07 2016 Borderline and Co-Dependency in the Scene: Part 1 - The Appeal of a Borderline Partner Nov 04 2016 Coercion Nov 02 2016 Let's Rethink Problematic Behaviors/Individuals in the Scene Oct 26 2016 Don't make fools of us on TV, please... Sep 27 2016 Sharing Isn't Caring Aug 29 2016 Let's take back negotiation Aug 04 2016 I want to tie you, not marry you... (intimacy in the scene) Jul 30 2016 Conflict aversion in the scene is unhealthy Jul 25 2016 We are a sexual minority... we just can't appropriate someone else's struggle Jul 23 2016 Vanilla Homosexuals and Us Jun 28 2016 The Single Double Standard Jun 06 2016 Don't make a big production May 21 2016 Why I won't teach at bars May 20 2016 Fetlife locked my account for four days. Here's what I learned Apr 05 2016 On the issue of sexual preference shaming Mar 29 2016 Play isn't sex Mar 29 2016 Label the relationship, not the individual Mar 20 2016 All of us Unevolved Doms and Beta Subs Mar 09 2016 Consent violations aren't sexy Feb 18 2016 2015 The One Where Vir Bitches Out Online Roleplayers Sep 22 2015
Borderline and Co-Dependency in the Scene: Part 4 - Stages of a BPD/Codepdendent Relationship Nov 26 2016