Let's take this in two parts.

The first part is that no matter how many times we say it, there are about a thousand guys who seem to seem not to hear it.

Cock isn't in short supply

Merely being present and having a penis does not make you an attractive mate for most women. The availability of penis is infinite. And even if there wasn't so much biocock available, there is an even more infinite supply of plastic, rubber, silicone and glass cocks, of every shape and size. Some glow, some buzz, some move around. Having a cock means very little in a land of abundance.

You need to bring more to the table. It's as simple as that.

And now to the other side:

Having skills does not make you more attractive

Paraphrasing Alec Baldwin from Glengarry Glen Ross:

Good flogger? I don't give a shit.

Amazing rigger? Fuck you, go home to your knots!

Being good at a skill doesn't entitle you to anything. It doesn't entitle you to play, it doesn't entitle you to a date. It doesn't entitle you to sex or love.

Being good at something means that maybe someone will want to play with you, in the same way that they might enjoy an amusement ride. And sometimes it's fun to offer that kind of experience. It's a way to experience something new both for you and them.

But if you think that simply being good at something means that someone's going to love you, then you're in the same position as the guys posting photos of their cock, because while a skill may open a door, love, care, and affection are about more than that, and just being good at something doesn't mean anything.

If you're looking for love, then get good at the skills that make you a good partner, not the skills that make you a good rigger.