Vir Cotto's BDSM Blog

Drop your top a note

Hey Bottoms,

Did you have a great time last night? Did the top really give you a good scene? Did they help you feel really good? Did you enjoy yourself?

Then drop them a little note the next day.

Many tops (including myself) will tell a bottom that if they have any trouble/concern/drop to let them know. We generally like to be there and help.

But correspondingly, if you had a good time, letting the top know makes me feel really good. It lets us know you're alright, it can help alleviate any lingering doubts, and it's generally a great little ego boost.

If you do this, the top is going to be more likely to want to play with you again too!

A short note can go a long way!