I practice erotic hypnosis. Sometimes I use it for good, "making you feel amazing, awake and aware", and sometimes I use it for "evil", making someone feel small, afraid, immobilized, humiliated or in pain. Hypnosis is a tool that I use regularly for my scenes and in my personal life …

In an effort to become healthier, I recently hired a personal trainer. His job is to guide me through exercises to build my muscles. As a hypnotist, I do much the same thing with new subjects.

Once people get over their initial skepticism of hypnosis, they're often amazed at the …

I've been hearing a phrase come up in my life again and again "Talking with you feels so easy and natural; you make me feel so comfortable."

I chuckle every time I hear someone say it and I've heard it from several women lately. It's funny because there's nothing natural …

I recently had the opportunity to attend a rope studio event which changed my view of rope forever.

I've seen shabari before. I've seen elaborate knotwork and ties and the girls in prone positions, positioned like marionettes. It did nothing for me.

Bondage itself was fun, but in my mind …

In a past life, I studied to become a psychologist. I have a natural read of people, and the training to become a psychologist would have been largely straightforward. My problem at the time was the emphasis on certain therapeutic models to the exclusion of others.

Years after I left …

One of the main challenges in explaining myself both to the vanilla and the BDSM world is the idea of service.

I'm a D type that enjoys service. I enjoy making the world a better place through volunteering. I enjoy doing things that will help my friends or loved ones …

Accepting my kinks was a slow journey for me. It took me years, even once I had BDSM in my life, to express what I really wanted to do, and even once I'd started doing it, to admit why.

To my past self, and my sometimes present self, I will …

When I talk to people who are curious about BDSM, they want to hear about experiences I've had or scenes I've done, but to me power exchange isn't about those wild scenes or crazy experiences, it's about connection. This is one of my favorite anecdotes:

Not that far from me …

I love online roleplayers. I don't just love them, I run a playground for them to play in, nd I do it because I love them.

But sometimes the online folks are the most confused. They want the most hardcore experiences. They don't just want a gangbang, they want to …

I recently met up with a kinky friend for a casual conversation that quickly turned to how our kinks work in ways to meet our emotional needs.

She recently explored her switchyness and the enjoyment of being submissive. I'm always happy when a friend discovers or explores a new aspect …