A few days ago, while on vacation I attended the best munch I've been to. This isn't to dismiss the amazing munches I've had before, but I learned quite a few lessons that I thought might help future munch organizers (possibly even me).

The venue was the ideal setting for …

On the very next day of the best munch I've been to, I attended the worst munch I've been to.

Apologies to the munch organizer if this particular night was not representative of the usual crowd, but it was quite bad.

A majority of the attendees were men in their …

The more time I spend with the community, the more prominence that public play and clubs are in the minds of folks, which ultimately leads to the question of "Vir, why don't you play at the clubs?

I have a set of neurological impairments, but the relevant one here is …

After my last relationship ended and I had some time to heal, I went back on OKCupid to find someone new- possibly for dating, or if I was lucky, for love.

But "vanilla dating" is challenging and for those of us like myself who are monogamously inclined, "the scene" is …

Recently I was talking to a sub friend about what it was that I most enjoyed about D/s, and I realized that the moments that I felt were the strongest were those where the sub had reached a moment of catharsis.

I think most doms and subs can relate …